>This is the Sound of Me SCREAMING!

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Can you hear it? Yea, well neither can anyone else. However, right now I am going nuts. I don't know the truth of it but my husband says everyone has mom issues. Perhaps some are worst, but mine are pretty bad. However, underneath it all I have to maintain a relationship with her partially over the yearning for mother daughter relationship and partially because she watches my children.

Today my husband and I bought Samantha for a haircut. I LOVE it and I think she looks adorable. Later on my mother calls and asks about our day. I told her I got Sams haircut. Which by the way Sam has been asking for. She wants to be more independent and brush her hair herself and this makes it more manageable and less knotty. Well, to get to the point my mom told me that she likes long hair on girls. Then went on to say that she was going to tell Samantha - MY 3 YEAR OLD - did I mention she is THREE, that long hair is for girls and short hair is for boys. SERIOUSLY??? I have short hair too. I lilke short hair. I like long hair too. Then she went on to say that she thinks I did it because I am a lazy mom and I just don't want to take the time to put it in poneytails and braids and whatnot.

Honestly, I got her hair cut so that it is more manageable. I got her haircut so that she can have some independence and take care of her own hair. She wants to, so why not. And yes our mornings are crazy. It will probably make our lives a little easier. Is there anything wrong with that?

Bottom line, she is my daughter and I can cut her hair if I want to. I do not have to answer to no one.

Ahhh, seriously just want to scream.........

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